The matric results are out, emails are rolling in from universities across the country, and suddenly you’re standing at the edge of a new chapter. Exciting? yes, but also a little terrifying. People start asking questions like, “So, what’s next?” or “Where are you going to study?” and before long, it feels like everyone else has it all figured out. 

Here’s the truth: most of us are still figuring it out, even when we look “sorted” on the outside. And in today’s world, shaped by rapidly evolving tech, shifting industries, and careers that didn’t even exist five years ago, it’s okay to take your time. 

As someone who’s walked this road, I want to share a few lessons from my journey. This isn’t a “how-to” manual. It’s more like a compass, a collection of insights, tips, and encouragement to help you navigate life after high school with confidence and curiosity. 

1. You don’t need to have it all figured out, but you do need to start exploring 

The pressure to “have a plan” right after matric can feel overwhelming. But guess what? Exploration is part of the plan. I realised this when I had to choose a career path. At first, I had no idea whether I wanted to pursue law, something creative like design, or even entrepreneurship. 

The key? Stay curious. I always tell myself, “Curiosity killed the cat, but satisfaction brought it back.” Curiosity led me to ask questions, speak to people, shadow professionals, and enrol in short courses. Each experience helped me better understand where my strengths lie. 

Watch YouTube interviews. Speak to students who are already in university. Do research, not to commit, but to explore. I took my time figuring things out, and so can you. Thankfully, NWU has a platform called the Interest Index that helps you explore your interests to find a field of study that suits you.   

2. Every skill you learn now is an investment in your future self 

Many people think success starts after university. Newsflash: it starts now. 

Whether it’s time management, clear communication, or learning to advocate for yourself, these “small” skills are the foundation of your future. For me, short courses helped me identify my strengths and ultimately led me to my current field. And, NWU has some really awesome short courses available that you can view here. 

We live in a world where personal branding, digital literacy, and social intelligence are as valuable as academic qualifications. Follow professionals on LinkedIn. Attend NWU open days. Use free online tools. Don’t wait for opportunities, go looking for them. 

Remember: learning doesn’t stop when school ends. It just changes shape. 

3. Confidence comes from action, not having all the answers 

You don’t gain confidence before you try, you gain it by trying. 

Your first email asking for advice might feel awkward. That first class at a new university might make you feel out of place. But every action you take makes the next one easier. That’s how confidence is built, one brave step at a time. 

Apply for that programme. Sign up for that course. Ask the question. Take the first step, no matter how small. That’s where growth begins. 

At NWU, I found a place where I could take those steps with the right guidance and support.  

4. Surround yourself with people who want to grow 

Your environment matters more than you think. 

Choose to be around people who are curious, ambitious, and supportive. Find peers who challenge you to be better, not just academically but personally. At NWU, I’ve met students and lecturers who have shaped the way I see myself and the world around me. 

Can’t find the right people in person? Find them online. Join student forums. Attend NWU webinars. Follow your role models. Growth is contagious, so surround yourself with people who inspire you to dream bigger. 

5. Success isn’t about being the best. It’s about becoming your best 

There will always be someone faster, smarter, or more accomplished. But your journey isn’t a race against anyone else, it’s about becoming the best version of yourself. 

Show up even when you're unsure. Ask for help when you need it. Own your story, with all its plot twists. And most importantly, define success for yourself. 

Whether your next step is enrolling at NWU, taking a gap year, or starting a small venture, if it’s aligned with who you are and where you want to go, it’s the right step. 

Lastly... 

If you’re a Grade 12 learner (or someone who’s just left school), take a deep breath. You don’t need a five-year plan right now. What you do need is the courage to start, with what you have, where you are. 

Your future might not look like anyone else’s. That’s the beauty of it.